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Make the Most of the Holidays as You Welcome a Child Through Adoption

December 20, 2024

The holiday season is a time filled with joy, togetherness, and celebration, and for families welcoming a child through adoption, it can hold even greater meaning. As your first holiday together, this is a unique opportunity to build lasting memories and deepen your family bond. Here are some tips to make the most of the holidays.

1. Set Realistic Expectations

Welcoming a child through adoption can bring emotional and logistical challenges, especially during the holidays. It’s important to acknowledge that this season may look and feel different than it has in the past—and that’s okay. Give yourself, your child, and other family members grace as you navigate new family dynamics and traditions. Focus on what feels manageable and meaningful for your family. You don’t need to do everything. Instead, choose a few simple traditions or activities that resonate with you and your child.

2. Create New Family Traditions

Holidays are the perfect time to start new traditions with your growing family. You might decorate holiday ornaments together that symbolize your first year as a family, introduce your child to your favorite holiday recipes or create a new dish together, or read stories and watch movies that celebrate family and love. While these traditions may seem small, they can help establish a sense of family, belonging, and connection. The holidays are the perfect time to start creating cherished memories for many years to come. 

3. Respect Your Child’s Background

Your child will likely come with their own traditions and cultural practices. Consider incorporating elements of their heritage or previous traditions into your holiday celebrations. This could include special foods, music, or practices. Honoring your child’s story and identity not only enriches the holiday experience but also reinforces your commitment to celebrating who they are. By honoring your child’s traditions, you help them feel more at home and supported as they transition into your family during the holiday season.

4. Prepare for Questions and Reactions

The holidays often bring extended family and friends together, which can sometimes lead to questions or comments about your adoption journey. Prepare yourself and your child for these moments by deciding in advance how much you’re comfortable sharing. Consider gently redirecting personal questions and educating family members about adoption-positive language. It’s also important to let your child know they can share as much or as little as they feel comfortable. The ultimate goal is to make sure your child feels safe and supported. 

5. Be Mindful of Emotions

The holidays can bring a mix of emotions for children who have been adopted. While there is joy in creating new memories, your child may also experience feelings of loss, grief, or uncertainty. Be attentive to their emotional needs and let them know it’s okay to express how they feel. Create a space where they feel heard, reassuring them of your love and commitment.

The holiday season is about celebrating love and the blessings He provides everyday. As you welcome your child through adoption, take time to reflect on the journey that brought you together and the new beginning you’re creating as a family. Whether through quiet moments of gratitude or joyful holiday celebrations, embrace the beauty of this season and the gift of your growing family. Remember, it’s not about having the “perfect” holiday but about celebrating the incredible journey you’re on as a family.